Six month rule dating
As I sauntered to the jukebox in my vegan leather pants and scrolled through the music selections, a lanky fellow leaned in next to me and asked if I would play him a song.
I was preparing to give him a standard and obviously uninterested two-word response until I glanced up at him.
A couple months ago, CNN Living published an article about the 3-month rule of dating, which, in the writer’s opinion, is the bare minimum a person should wait to get comfortable with where a relationship is going. The reality is that we live in a world of instant gratification.
That great little microcosm you’ve got going on there may seem like a perfect little world just for the two of you, but if you don’t share a set of core values with which to build a strong foundation for your relationship, that microcosm is nothing but a fragile bubble ready to pop at the slightest pressure from the outside world.
I decided to call it My Portland Adventure (I don’t get any points for original titles), and there was one key element as to why this Oregonian adventure oozed sexiness: Dayton.
I met Dayton during my first weekend in Portland at a fusion restaurant that prided itself on the ability to hang the most motorcycles from its ceiling.
Relationships, especially in those early stages, give you an emotional high, making it really easy to ignore red flags and even potential deal breakers. Connecting with someone and enjoying a time of infinite possibilities for what the future could bring is so hard to resist. You can talk to them for hours, spend days with them, and never seem to tire of their company.
Right now, right in this moment, that person makes you feel like nothing in this world could ever get you down again. I hate to be the harbinger of bad news, but you can’t stay up on that cloud forever.